The fathers in my family are affectionately referred to as Dad, Daddy, Pops, and Papi. Newsflash: None are perfect! But each one signifies love, courage, provision, and strength. Their eyes glow with purpose. Their smiles melt hearts. Their chest swells with pride. Their callous hands protect. They stand tall with dignity. And their embraces offer comfort and assurance. Yes, they are the pillars of our households.
It’s said that every man is trying to live up to his father’s expectations. Alternatively, he is trying to make up for his father’s mistakes. I’m not sure if that’s true. I only know that each man represented in my family strives to be the very best possible. Each holds a mantle and carries a torch for the next generation. Each dad represented in my family lays a solid foundation, even those who have crossed over to the other side. I can’t help but think about my own grandfathers. They were strong, respected, dedicated men with a constant presence. They left behind a legacy. When the tough got going, they didn’t cave under pressure. They persevered with Puerto Rican pride in every fiber of their being.
To the men in my family who are dads: I love each of you. I admire each of you. To my dear husband, who married me with four children, I share this quote. “It takes a strong man to accept somebody else’s children. It takes strength to step up to the plate, another man left on the table.” I salute you.
I salute you all. Remember: Any man can be a father. But it takes a special person to be a dad.
And to the newest dad in our family, my handsome grandson,
now with his precious
little girl. I am one proud great-grandma!
From Heart to Heritage
Reflections From the Heart 
A loving tribute. ❤
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That’s sweet MA. Yes, I agree Mark is the God appointed special man you needed in your life. Kuddos to him for possessing such a large and open heart. Those kind of hearts don’t grow on trees!
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Thank you, girlfriend. He is a keeper and I am grateful to God 🙂
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You shared such tenderness for the men in your life. I appreciate the respect and dignity you have given them. It does take a special man to be a dad, my friend. But also a special woman to truly see the men in her life.
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Thank you, Dayle. Always love & appreciate your insight and enlightenment.
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“Any man can be a father. But it takes a special person to be a dad.” 😊
We’re flying to see our son, daughter-in-law, and grandson tomorrow. I don’t take these gatherings for granted when we get three generations together. My favorite part of being a grandpa is watching our son be an incredible dad.
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Yes, indeed! I am in awed and blessed watching my daughter demonstrate genuine love and patience with her brood.
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Mary, you’re a young looking great-grandma. To all the men in your family who are dads Happy Father’s Day. Enjoy the celebration.
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Thank you for saying so, dear Beverly. Hugs!
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